"Transforming conflict into CONNECTION Protocol"
10 Week Online Course
This 10-week interactive online program, "Transforming Conflict into Connection Protocol," expertly addresses the common struggles of unresolved and recurring conflicts within couple relationships by targeting and clearing the CORE limiting beliefs that serve as individual triggers. These triggers are what ultimately create disconnection, tension and resentments within a relationship. This program is so effective and unlike any other program available because it integrates the most effective couple therapy approaches with evidenced-based Energy Psychology modalities, creating a new framework for intimate relationships to THRIVE. Through proven techniques and guided sessions, relationship conflicts TRANSFORM into opportunities for deeper connection and intimacy, fostering a more loving and fulfilling relationship.
I'm Dr. Kimberly Flemke, and I help couples TRANSFORM conflict into CONNECTION...
I am a licensed Couple & Family Therapist with more than 25 years of clinical experience. I have been a featured guest on the "Today Show" numerous times, as well as a clinical expert on other various television shows and news segments. In addition, I served as faculty for almost a decade in the Dept. of Couple & Family Therapy at Drexel University in Philadelphia, PA, where I taught graduate courses on Couple Therapy, Sex Therapy, and Trauma. I also conducted research, published articles on findings, and led presentations and workshops on improving relationships.
In addition to being an academic and clinician, I am also a Reiki Master and energy practitioner. The fundamental belief I hold is that we are all souls having a human experience. Therefore, I see individuals, as well as relationships, holistically. I believe there is a mind-body-spirit connection to all things...
This program is a culmination of all my clinical and academic experience, as well as energy trainings and practices. I am pulling from the VERY BEST approaches in my field, while also incorporating a brand new way to eliminate relationship triggers that "hook" couples into fighting and disconnecting. This course is unlike ANY other program currently available, as it offers a spiritual framework for understanding intimate relationships and teaches energetic techniques, such as Tapping, to REMOVE relationship blocks. The results are immediate and completely transformative!
Within 10 short weeks or less, a NEW foundation will be created in the relationship. Each partner is responsible for identifying and healing their internal triggers, which consequently will dramatically shift the current dynamic in the relationship. It requires partners to take full responsibility for the ways they each behave and contribute to the negative patterns. By recognizing the "gifts" their conflicts are offering, partners are taught to see how all of their triggers serve as catalysts for growth and healing...
If you are tired of being in a mediocre or unfulfilling relationship and are willing to stop blaming your partner for your current dissatisfaction AND if you are ready to take a deep-dive into yourself and heal the parts inside that constantly get triggered, this program is for YOU!
If you are able to hold a spiritual framework for understanding your life and relationship, this program is for YOU!
If you're ready to experience a much deeper level of intimacy than you currently have in your relationship AND a greater awareness into yourself, this program is for YOU!
If you are ready to create the relationship you've always longed to have and finally heal inside, I invite you to join me on a Sacred Journey for Transformation!
Join me on a
sacred journey for transformation!
Why Invest in this program?
Over the years I've had countless couples decide to go on a vacation as a desperate attempt to get closer and help improve their relationship. More times than not, the vacation increases connection...but only temporarily.
Without the stressors of everyday life, couples tend to find ways to reconnect. However, once they return from their get-away, the struggles left behind in the relationship are still there, along with old resentments still waiting to be triggered. This is a band-aid approach that never really changes anything fundamental to the relationship.
After investing in this 10-week journey, couples will learn to transform their conflicts into deeper connection. This course provides actionable strategies to heal past hurts, foster mutual respect, and reignite the love and closeness missing in their relationship. By the end of the program, couples feel more understood, valued, and prepared to face future challenges together, enjoying the relationship they once only dreamed was possible...
Who will most benefit from this program?
* Couples who are on a spiritual path and believe there is a spiritual reason they found each other
* Couples who are able to recognize that life brings us opportunities to learn and grow from, rejecting the belief of being a victim
* Couples who are ready to stop blaming each other and are willing to understand their individual contributions of creating conflict and distance within the relationship
* Couples who are motivated to explore what has created their triggers that lead to conflict so they can heal them
Why would I choose to do this program vs. Traditional Couple Therapy?
Traditional couple therapy can be very effective; however, due to the structure and its time-constraints, couple therapy often focuses on putting out the immediate "fires" in the relationship. Interventions like improving communication often become the focus. Although such skills are quite necessary and helpful, couples often find that they return to the same painful place of disconnection and resentment over time IF the root triggers to their conflicts go unaddressed, thus causing couples to feel stuck and hopeless...
Therefore, as a result of observing this repeated pattern when working with couples, I've created this specific course, which is designed to teach couples a new way of connecting. Each week will focus on building a new layer to the relationship's foundation. It will also provide the necessary tools to help couples heal their conflict-ridden dynamics. Partners will begin to understand themselves in a much deeper way, thus providing a new lens for understanding their partner. The results are powerful!
This program will not only include a section for improving communication skills but will transform the foundation of the relationship by going beneath the surface to heal the "hooks" that trigger you to experience disconnection and conflict.
Furthermore, the average duration of couple therapy lasts between 12-25 sessions (generally 3-6 months). Not only is this a more cost-effective approach, there is a definable timeline that enables couples to focus and fully commit to the process. Because the program is limited in time, it is also easy to track measurable goals, which often builds momentum and keeps couples engaged until the very end. The results will be well-worth the 8 week investment of time and money!
Comments by Couples who have completed the course:
"This course should be mandatory for ALL couples!" - Alan, San Diego, CA
The course was excellent...(It) Went beyond what I expected. I thought it would just be about communication tips, but it also helped me with self-awareness and healing.
- Anthony, West Chester, PA
" We are [now] able to have discussions that used to trigger each other, but do so in a calm and respectful way. I believe we both have put in more effort in a daily basis to work on being healthy together...
My self worth has increased tremendously... Communication is much better, connection improved. We are able to know what the other needs more now because of the course. This is the healthiest our relationship has ever been. [We] just celebrated 11 years of marriage...So that's huge!!"
- Nicole, Toughkenamon, PA
"[The most important thing I learned] was Healthy vs. Unhealthy communication. It helped me see some negative patterns, see how we trigger each other...We now have a common language and we have
more tools..."
- Donna, Philadelphia, PA
"The program has allowed us the confidence and space to be authentic and vulnerable with each other in a way we hadn't before. It has allowed my husband and I to share a common language and framework about our individual growth, as well as our relationship's past and future...This course was incredibly beneficial to me as I continue my 'forever journey' towards healing and simply trying to be the best version of myself."
- Chris, Kennett Square, PA
It has allowed us to understand each other on a much deeper level and helped us learn how to better communicate.
- Kyle, Hockesin, DE
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ONLINE PROGRAM REGISTRATION
Sign up for the next launch:
October 29th, 2025
10 Week Program Format
MONDAYS:
1 Hour LIVE (OPTIONAL)
Coaching Class @12pm EST
(Calls will be recorded &
posted in the FB group:
Transforming SOLUTIONS for Fighting Couples)
* Calls are designed to:
a) Review the Class Content
b) Discuss Homework
c) Answer Any Questions
Cost: $1,497/Couple
To enroll, please register and submit payment below: